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msgrace  

HELP!! AT WITS END

Hello I am coming to you once again, after my daughter accident in this past Nov., In Jan of of this year my son was in a near deat accident. The SUV in which he was riding left the road and crashed into a house he had multiple broken bones to include his femur bone in his left leg, shattered his right arm in 6 place and fracture both sides of his pelvic bone was in hospital for 2 months he is recovering not walking yet. So I have had to be responssible for all the bills and the only income I had was unemployment which is now ending because the state (NC) has no more funds. We are desparatly in need of some financial help behind in rent and utilities my son has a hospital bed that is in the home and has a aide that comes by. We have no income now. If we could just get things caught up for a month or so, maybe I can find some work even though my ability is limited I have applied for disability has been 3 yrs turned down twice I am now waiting on my hearing hope it goes well it will help me a lot at this point I will continue to pray and trust inGOD and believe that everything will be OK.
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PleaseHelp011008  

Just need help

Hello,

I am very new to this. I am a person that would rather struggle than ask for help. I have gave and gave and gave and now in my time of need there is nobody here for me. I am struggling real bad right now to survive. I am working a full time job that can not pay my rent, bills, car payment, car insurance, and take care of three kids. I also go to school online. I am in the middle of a custody battle for my step son. My life is just real hectic right now and I just need help to atleast get up on my feet. I need prayer to for strength and guidance. I don't want to loose my step son and I need a financial, mental, physical, and emotional blessing. I'm so stressed out right now and also tired. I never get rest because I'm trying to keep my household going and provide for my family. Please help me and also pray for me. I thank you in advance.
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godlucifer  

struggle

struggling in life is so much a misconeption and trying to find ways to lived is such a struggle. no matter how much money one's have life is still a struggle. love can be a struggle,work can be painful,and trying to cope with life can be a struggle or pain. if i were happy in life then money wouldn't matter but since my financial is in such a dismay i still concept with life liked an everyday person would do regardless if i had money or not. my quote is money can buy materialistic but people are materialistic so why do they need money! just thought i would share whats on my mind for today. if you thought what i said is true then reply back because i just feel like talking to someone. talking to people helps.

your so vain,
godlucifer
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stephdevon1121  

My family needs financial help. please help us!

hi, today is ok. my spirit is low but hanging in there. i need help with my rent, utilities, food, clothes for my son and i and things for my dog. i have degenerative disks, a fragment on my t12 vertebra, scoliosis of the lower spine and my tail bone pops in and out of place. i also have anxiety. if there is anyone that can send gift cards, money, words of advice, or clothing and food. thank you for reading this and god bless.
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Duped  

About Duped

After separating from my husband I went on a holiday overseas.  I was relieved of my money by thieves at the airport and stranded there for several months.  I borrowed from short term high interest loan people there to live, and as my pension was also cut, was then unable to repay loan, which accumulated interest upon interest etc., by the time I paid it off I had sold all my belongings.

I am now in Australia and as I have nothing, I am trying to borrow $16,000 - 20,000 to get re-established, pay-out some final debts here and if possible, purchase cheap vehicle.  Does anyone have any information on where I may be able to borrow funds.

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birdbath  

senior financial assistance

I have an elderly parent 83 years old. She needs help financially with utility bills energy bills. She is on a fixed income social security. I do all i can to help her. I only work part-time. She has had a lot jklof medical bills this past year.
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birdbath  

senior financial assistance

I have an elderly parent 83 years old. She needs help financially with utility bills energy bills. She is on a fixed income social security. I do all i can to help her. I only work part-time. She has had a lot jklof medical bills this past year.
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birdbath  

senior financial assistance

I have an elderly parent 83 years old. She needs help financially with utility bills energy bills. She is on a fixed income social security. I do all i can to help her. I only work part-time. She has had a lot jklof medical bills this past year.
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birdbath  

senior financial assistance

I have an elderly parent 83 years old. She needs help financially with utility bills energy bills. She is on a fixed income social security. I do all i can to help her. I only work part-time. She has had a lot jklof medical bills this past year.
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MommyGaia  

Mother of disabled baby needs financial help

Looking, as many are, for financial help. My daughter was born in July, and due to medical incompetence she was deprived oxygen for almost 45 minutes. She has severe permanent brain damage, CP, cortical blindness, and cannot swallow which means all her food is fed to her through her g-tube.
It's difficult because her care is so specialized I essentially cannot work, and have to devote myself to her care (at home nurses are a lot more expensive than me not working). But, it still is a huge detriment to our finances me being unable to work.
On top of our normal bills, we get unexpected ones all the time as insurance doesn't cover all her medical supplies and she simply needs them to survive from day to day, so there is no cutting back on those. And we can't cut out anymore expenses we're living hand to mouth and barely at that. I wouldn't trade my daughter for anything, but if anyone cares to donate everything and anything would be appreciated. Also, one day when I have the ability, I will pay forward any help I receive.
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SAG5122  

Please help if you can--

I found this site and am in a desperate situation- I am in the process of filing for disability and am unable to work. My husband lost his job the week before Thanksgiving- he has numerous resumes and applications sent out but no phone calls. He has applied for unemployment but still has not been approved or denied. We had to get help for the past 2 months from family and friends to just pay bills, however our family and friends are limited with the help they are able to give.We had to apply for food stamps and did get approved but since we dont have children at home we are not eligible for any kind of state financial help. We have rent due now and utilities within 3 days and only have $7.50 LITERALLY in the bank- we truly need a blessing and a financial breakthrough to get us through this time. The total amount of rent and utilities is about $900.00 but we would greatly appreciate any and all help offered.I understand that you probably receive many letters asking for assistance so if you decline my request for help.-Thank you for your time and consideration.-God Bless you all
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KayDub  

FINANCIAL CRISIS............PLEASE HELP

Hello. I am a 22 year old young lady who is in a financial crisis. I have been behind on bills since I was 18 years old. My father was murdered and ever since then I have been on my own. I moved to VA with my step mom and lived with her but then I got pregnant and she said that I needed to find my own place. I work as a server but because I am a full time student I can not work as much as I need to. I work at most 3 times a week. M$y boyfriend tries the best he could but he too is a server. We have paid rent 2 weeks late for the past 7 months. Our cable has been turned off due to non payments and now we owe them at least $700, our electric bill is two months late, my car insurance was cancelled for non payment and I still owe them about $200, my cell phone bill will not be able to be paid which is also about $200, I have bills in North Carolina (where i use to live) that I still owe that have already gone to collection agencies, and to top it all off, the lease at the apartment I am currently renting is up on February 7 and we still have not found a place to go. To get the new place we need to pay an application fee which can range from $25-$40 per applicant, a down deposit, and a security deposit. I have been overwhelmingly stressed out and am very afraid. I am trying to hold it together for my sons sake but I can not act like this is going to go away or get better any time soon. The reality check is I need some serious financial help. PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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loveforjesus  

Medical help

I don't need money for Christmas. Christmas is about being with family. I need help with expenses to find out what's wrong with me. I have had abdominal pain since I was 12. I no longer have insurance and do not kjnow what to do at this point. They want to do a procedure to see i I have endometriosis, however I cannot afford the procedure and they are also cutting me a deal with it. I am tired of being in pain and not being able to enjoy life to the fullest. Can someone help? Either way, God Bless. My email is loveforjesus1990@hotmail.com
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chinadoll17  

Help to stop Eviction

Hi, Single mother of 3 , seeking financial assistance to stop an eviction, I am exhausted from the government, city, private agency, all a dead end. What the hell, this cannot be any different, Maybe by the grace of God, I will prevail and find the assistance I need.

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Anonymous  

Transitional Family

Hello my family recently moved to the Dallas, Texas area from Chicago, Illinois after losing my mother and home this past summer. It's been a difficult adjustment because of financial strain. We are living with loving relatives however I have a 13 year old boy who sleeps in the living room on a blow up bed and my 9 year old girl who sleeps with me. Space is extremely limited. I am thankful and fortunate to have some place to lay our heads. And I thank God for that daily. I'm currently working on my nurse's degree just to inform whoever is reading this and is thinking about helping my family. Will have it complete in 1 year. I am asking for assistance to provide my two kids with an exceptional Christmas. It's been hard on them losing our home and then their grandmother all in a narrow time span. Please help me give them something to look forward to "A GREAT CHRISTMAS" Thanks
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janieway1  

Breast Cancer sucks..

My breast cancer is back..I am getting ready to start chemo..My immune system is very weak..We are still paying the bills from the last cancer battle...Please pray for me and my family..I have applied at numerous agencies for assistance..I am still waiting on replies...GOD knows our needs and burdens and I have FAITH that he is going to take care of us..Thank you all in advance for your prayers..
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corimari  

About corimari

Please help me, I can't even afford groceries.
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mychildren  

PLEASE HELP SAVE MY DAUGHTER

i am in a real bad situation and need help, i bought the plane ticket(rouund trip) butas far as that, that is all i have figured out, im always crying to figure out what to do, my daughter who is 12 avbout to turn 13, used to live here but when she went to go visit her father for summer one year he went and recieved custody, he didnt give the courts my current address so by the time my papers were served to me at work i only had 2 1/2 days to get to cali and i couldnt and since we had no custody order previously he won, well my daughter comes here frequently and loves it here and with mommy. i started a court case earlier in the year, i went to s.f ca. to do so. but have to be there 0ctober 6th to be there to fight in her defense, child protective services have let her down and so far the court system is too, i involed cps because her stating drugs in the house, the way she is treated and taking my child to parties with him and his mother which is her grandmother and driving drunk all the time, and all the system can say is send her back and wait til he does it again so she can call her father in, wow..i cant believe that, to use my daughter as a set up, when she already fears him, i used to aswell but not anymore. also how dare they suggest putting her in that situation what if we dont get that call, what if we arent that lucky this time, well she did have to go back until further notice or i was i was in violation of breaking a court order, since then my daughter calls and texts me on a phone i bought her, tellling me what goes on, and how she hates her life, cant handle her life and doesnt know what to do with it anymore.its even all posted all over her facebook, i even had to call the s.f police the other night to do a wellness check on her, because of situations in the house getting bad with her purposely locking herself in the bathroom until police arrived but wasnt able to talk to them alone. after that her father took the phone i bought away from her, so she cant contact whats going on inside..as a mother this breaks my heart, i feel so helpless, i cant let her down, i cant even go into her room it hurts so bad, and her brother is 1 and sits at her door waiting for her to open it, and when we say our see you laters she cant even say bye to him, and she hyperventilates. i had to fly back with her to guarantee she would go, its that bad,she has called me from teachers phones stating thinking about running away, her father is ruining her . emotionally especially at this age, and i cant let that happen to my child, ive never let it happen to the kids here in my community ive been an active member helping other kids, mine cant grow up any faster than needed or worse those bad feelings take her elsewhere and i would never want to think about her running away,im married and have another child, family is my life, my world, i offer a great life and im very involved , her father doesnt even raise her, its his mother whom he lives with and she is doing all the same bad things, someone please help me, ill donate time and help volunteer, anything, but please,with tickets bought which made it hard on bills but either way it is bought, but all i think i should need is $200.00 total for , greyhounds, amtraks, barts and other buses and food the week im there, i can show all proof to what im saying if needed, and theres more ive left out actually. someone please help our family, thank you and you are all in my prayers whether you can help or not...have a blessed day
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feb-23  

About feb-23

Hello Feb 23 2011 forever changed our lives. My husband was in an accident which left him with traumatic brain damage and partial paralization. He was released to my care which is 24 hrs a day . This means i cant work. neither one of us has worked since Feb 23 2011. We are trully in need of financial help he is in his 50's and i am approaching 50. 8 months ago we were productive citizens and today we could be minutes from being homeless. Please help us pay our rent or what ever you can help us with will be greatly appreciated.

Thank You

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jimmyev231  

Anyone? ?

I see alot of people read these posts. Does anyone ever get help??
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